ACCENT! What accent?

I have a heavy accent, one thing about blogging is nobody can hears me. The guys here make fun of me all the time. People would call back and indicated that they have spoken to a Chinese lady and I hated that. Not because I’m not proud to be a Chinese, is because of my accent that distinguish me. I often wonder if my accent sounds horrible? When I answer the phone at home, people often asked to speak to my mom! I listened to the telephone recorder at home and I hated my voice. My voice does sound young. Do your parents have the same problem with accent?